Mennonite pastor and counselor Harvey Yoder blogs on faith, life, family, spirituality, relationships, values, peace and social justice. Views expressed here are his own.
Thursday, April 29, 2021
People Of Faith Should Support Immunizations
Tuesday, April 27, 2021
Time Out--Counseling As A Kind of Holy Huddle
Monday, April 19, 2021
A First Century Fund Drive For Foreign Relief
In addition to raising money through food sales and the auction at the annual Virginia Mennonite Relief Sale, can we also learn from the example of the early church? |
Here are some of Paul's instructions for that giving:
1. Set aside generous contributions on a regular basis.
"On the first day of every week, each of you should set aside a portion of their income, saving it up, so that when I come no collections will be needed." (I Corinthians 16:2 Berean Study Bible)
2. Emulate the generous and joyous giving done by other believers.
And now, brothers and sisters, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. In the midst of a very severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the Lord’s people. And they exceeded our expectations: They gave themselves first of all to the Lord, and then by the will of God also to us. (II Corinthians 8:1-5 NIV)
3. Give out of a deep sense of Christ's love and compassion, the one who made himself poor for our sakes.
...since you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you—see that you also excel in this grace of giving. I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich. (II Corinthians 8:7-9 NIV)
4. Give eagerly and willingly, based on all of the blessings you have been given.
Last year you were the first not only to give but also to have the desire to do so. Now finish the work, so that your eager willingness to do it may be matched by your completion of it, according to your means. For if the willingness is there, the gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what one does not have. (II Corinthians 8:10-12 NIV)
5. Give not as an act of charity, but as an intentional distribution of wealth that results in greater equity and equality.
Our desire is not that others might be relieved while you are hard pressed, but that there might be equality. At the present time your plenty will supply what they need, so that in turn their plenty will supply what you need. The goal is equality, as it is written: “The one who gathered much did not have too much, and the one who gathered little did not have too little.” (II Corinthians 8:13-15 NIV)
These God-inspired instructions have relevance for us today.
Four years ago an SOS (Sharing Our Surplus) Committee was formed to help the fall Virginia Mennonite Relief Sale raise additional funds for world relief through having a donation table for cash, check or credit card contributions. The proceeds were to augment funds the Relief Sale raises each year for Mennonite Central Committee (MCC) through auction and food sales, with all of the SOS proceeds going directly MCC for refugee relief needs.
In the years since, a total of over $100,000 has been raised through this effort, and last year's SOS receipts enabled the total Relief Sale's giving to MCC to exceed all previous years, in spite of there not being the usual onsite auction and food sales at the Rockingham County Fairgrounds in 2020.
Friday, April 16, 2021
I'm An Actual Blood Relative Of Donald Trump
Think about it. This means each of us has nearly 8 billion other cousins spread all over the planet. Too many are targeted as our enemies, and millions are homeless and in desperate need of. |
I'd like to recommend our expanding on that exercise, so that whenever we meet even a stranger we assume a common ancestry, and look for all of the ways we might share a common DNA and common roots, based on the conviction that "God has made of one blood all people on earth."
Since this is so, then we are literally cousins of every other human being on earth.
Someone has said, "You can choose your friends, but you're stuck with your relatives." But the fact is, your friends are also your relatives, as are all of your enemies.
That means that someone like Donald Trump, whom I regard as neither an enemy nor an actual friend, is nevertheless a part of my extended family. And since I and the Trumps each have German ancestors, it means we are even more closely related than I am to most people on the planet.
I am also related to all of Mr. Trump's supporters, including those who stormed the capitol building in January 6 and those who continue to insist the last election was stolen from him. And I also share cousin status with all other human beings everywhere, all 7 billion of whom are my blood relatives, literally all of them. And if we searched an Ancestry.com site with enough data, we could actually figure out just how we are connected.
What difference should that awareness make? Shouldn't it mean that we seek ways of showing love and celebrating kinship with each other, sharing with our kinfolk in need, setting aside our weapons and resolving our family differences and conflicts?
And let's go about arranging for some long overdue family reunions. Our Creator would like that.
Friday, April 9, 2021
War-Making--An Unimaginably Brutal, Barbaric, Bloody, Cruel, Insane, Heartless And Hellish Form Of Terror, Murder And Mass Destruction
Kim Thi Kim Phic, left center, fleeing napalm bombing by the South Vietnamese Air Force in 1972. Three times as much firepower was used in that horrific, senseless war as in all of WWII. |
So what would be more accurate and truthful alternatives to the use of toned down and misleading terms such as the following?
defense, as in "national defense," "defense departments," "defense contracts," "the Department of Defense" (once called the Department of War"). An enterprise utilizing explosive weapons designed to efficiently destroy, kill and cause unimaginable harm should hardly be considered a mere means of defending against harm.
national security, as in "national security forces" or "national security budgets." Can the investment of trillions of dollars on the part of nations around the world for such "security" really make the world a more secure and safe place ?
conflict, as in the "Korean conflict," "the conflict in Afghanistan," "conflicts around the world. " Would not a word like "conflagration" be more accurate?
engage, as in "engaged the enemy" or "military engagement." While this sounds totally harmless, it is the extreme opposite.
incursion, as in "Cambodian incursion," "Chinese Air Force incursion into Taiwan," etc. These are code words for unimaginably hostile and bloody invasions.
mission, as in "a bombing mission" or "on a mission to neutralize the enemy." Hardly the kind of benign activity we usually associate with the word mission.
service/duty, as in "tour of duty," "in the service," "active duty," "duty (or service) to your country," "service member," etc. No hint of any harm being done by anyone anywhere, or if there is, it is seen as totally necessary and justified.
campaign/raid, as in "military campaign," or "daring raid." The former is war-making on a more massive scale than the latter but both are intended to inflict irreparable damage to human life and/or property.
sacrifice, as in "the ultimate sacrifice" or "sacrifice for your country." While we must never minimize the terrible toll war-making takes on those who wage it, a warring nation's goal is always to make "sacrifices" of as many enemy lives as possible, not their own.
fallen, as in "honor the fallen," or "fallen heroes." Yes, we must of course forever lament and mourn the extreme suffering and the many lives lost in all wars, while doing everything possible to prevent the tragic and untimely deaths of recruits forced to be "in harm's way" (another common euphemism).
So do we have the courage to call war the insanity it really is?
Mark Twain wrote his famous "War Prayer" in 1905, which was before the era of ever more terrifying weapons of mass destruction being dropped from the air or fired from long range missiles. It was his way of injecting some truth into the Orwellian language we typically use for war-making.
Anticipating strongly negative reactions from his readers, Twain asked that the War Prayer not be published until after his death, stating that "only dead men can speak the truth in this world."
Here is the closing part of his satirical prayer:
Tuesday, April 6, 2021
Lloyd And Orpha, Legends In Their Own Time
They knew true love was far more than a bed of roses. |
Once when we were about to leave for home after spending time at their house our son Brent, then very young, was nowhere to be found. He had hidden under his bed covers upstairs as a way of saying he wasn't ready to go home yet, and wanted to stay just another day longer.
We always wanted to stay longer. As Alma Jean's oldest sister, Orpha was like a second mother to all of us, and Lloyd like a benevolent father.
Monday all of our family but our oldest, Brad (who had not received his first COVID shot until yesterday), attended a memorial service held for the couple at their home congregation, Lauvers Mennonite, just down the road from the Gingrich homestead. After a lingering illness Orpha, age 94, was laid to rest in the Lauvers cemetery beside her husband, who had died nearly a year earlier.
Their seven children, twenty grandchildren, twenty-eight great-grandchildren and even two great-great grandchildren celebrated their life and sang their praises, together with members of their extended family and scores of their friends and fellow congregants.Orpha, who taught school for several years before their marriage, was a devoted and lifelong mother and grandma whose heart and home were always open to friend and stranger alike. She was also an inspirational Bible teacher who could quote whole chapters of scripture "by heart."
Lloyd loved church history and collected books of historical interest, served on the board of Eastern Mennonite Missions for much of his adult life, and was active in establishing a Mennonite historical center nearby, as well as being devoted to helping raise their wonderful family.
As I reflected on what made this couple so special, I thought of how they exemplified so many of the qualities described in the "love chapter" of the Bible (I Corinthians 13), consistently manifesting a love "so patient and so kind, not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude, not irritable or resentful, never rejoicing in wrongdoing, but always rejoicing in the truth, bearing all things, believing all things and enduring all things. Their love never gave out or gave up... and their faith, hope and love always remain. But the greatest of their legacies is love."
The world would be blessed by having a lot more people like that.
Sunday, April 4, 2021
A Muslim Reflection On The Resurrection Story
For many years our house church met for our Easter sunrise service at the entrance of Massanutten Caverns, the entrance of which is now sealed and with a no trespassing sign. |
"Two thousand years ago, an itinerant Jewish preacher and miracle worker walked across the Galilee, gathering followers to establish what he called the "Kingdom of God." The revolutionary movement he launched was so threatening to the established order that he was captured, tortured and executed as a state criminal."
Here's what Aslan writes about the resurrection:
"Jesus's resurrection is an extremely difficult topic for the historian to discuss, not least because it falls beyond the scope of any examination of the historical Jesus. Obviously the notion of a man dying a gruesome death and returning to life three days later defies all logic, reason, and sense. One could simply stop the argument there, dismiss the resurrection as a lie, and declare belief in the risen Jesus to be the product of a deludable mind.
"However there is this nagging fact to consider: one after another of those who claimed to have witnessed the risen Jesus went to their own gruesome deaths refusing to recant their testimony. That is not, in itself, unusual. Many zealous Jews died horrible deaths for refusing to deny their beliefs. But these first followers of Jesus were not being asked to reject matters of faith based on events that took place centuries, if not millennia, before. They were being asked to deny something they themselves personally, directly encountered.
"The disciples were themselves fugitives in Jerusalem, complicit in the sedition that led to Jesus's crucifixion. They were repeatedly arrested and abused for their preaching; more than once their leaders had been brought before the Sanhedrin to answer charges of blasphemy. They were beaten, whipped, stoned and crucified, yet they would not cease proclaiming the risen Jesus."
I don't agree with all of Aslan's conclusions, but I found this part of his book fascinating and provocative.
Have a blessed Easter!
Friday, April 2, 2021
Crucifixion: An Unimaginably Brutal, Barbaric, Bloody, Cruel, And Heartless Form Of Execution
"It's Friday, But Sunday's Coming" S.M. Lockridge (1913-2000), pastor of Calvary Baptist Church in San Diego |