A Persistent Voice For Peace

This woman, like the widow in one
of Jesus's parables, is not about to 
give up.

Katherine Temple, a local mother and grandmother, is not only passionate about promoting peace and condemning war, but is willing to actually do something about it. Every day.

Every day she posts a "Peace Bit" on her blog and sends emails to an international group of folks who have signed up for them. And each day she contacts her legislators with another message of appeal and warning, and urges others to do the same. 

Here's an example of one of her recent "Peace Bits," edited for brevity and posted with her permission:

Hello lovers of peace, justice, and hope,

When Donald Trump was president, it was  hard to get through when we called our legislators’ offices. The lines were constantly busy. Lots of us were that alarmed about what would happen, and knew our legislators were often corrupt, weak, and ineffectual, but we never let up; we were that concerned. 

Now, I usually get through on the first try. I’m hardly ever even put on hold. So I know very few people ever contact legislators. Why?

It can't be that people don’t know that humanity is in an emergency situation. Everyone here in North America at least is breathing wildfire smoke, for one thing. And people know the Doomsday Clock is ticking with only a few seconds to nuclear “midnight”.

Why is it so difficult to get some of our friends and loved ones —maybe ourselves as well— to “lobby" those individuals who could possibly significantly alleviate the dangers? Why are our legislators not inundated?

We can email or hard-copy-mail those legislators Just go to their websites for the info you need. They DO have power to gum up the systems that press toward Armageddon. Use this or any peace message to tell them what you want:

“[Legislator],

You may not hear from many of your constituents about the extreme peril our world is in due to climate catastrophe and impending nuclear Armageddon. 

But you do hear from me and I’m sure at least a few others, so you cannot be unaware that our world is not going to survive unless people everywhere come TOGETHER to work for peace and healing. And you know that our current use of fossil fuel as well as our war making must end post haste. 

I implore you to speak out. I urge you to call for peace, global cooperation and negotiation, and healing for our planet. Take assertive leadership to condemn war, domination, competition, and exploitation. Please do not let "warists" and exploiters silence your voice.

Your constituent,

[Name]”

Please ask your friends whether they would be willing to tell legislators how worried we are. If they need prompts, please invite them to receive my Peace Bits. There are over 140 of us around the WORLD who use them in one form or another every day:

1. Sign up on the Experiential Peace site: www.epaxoc.org/stay-updated

2. Email KathleenTempleTailor@gmail.com 

3. Subscribe to my blog: KathleenTemple.wordpress.com 

For survival, peace, and healing,

❤️  - Kathleen

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   (But) Love compels us to respectfully and humbly show all high officials what the Word of God commands them, how they should rightfully execute their office to the glory and praise of God... to punish the transgressors and protect the good; to judge rightly between a man and his fellows; to do justice to the widows and orphans and to the poor, to rule cities and countries justly by a good policy and administration, not contrary to God’s Word but to the benefit of the common people.

The regenerated do not go to war, or engage in strife. They are the children of peace, who have beaten their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks, and they know no war. Since we are conformed to the image of Christ, how then can we kill our enemies with the sword? Spears and swords made of iron we leave to those, alas, who consider human blood and swine’s blood as having well nigh equal value.

- Menno Simons, 16th century reformer

Vision Statements By Gemeinschaft Residents

As a part time counselor at the Gemeinschaft Women's 
House, I recently suggested they each write a vision
statement for themselves.

The following statements are by some of the current residents of the Women's House, posted with their permission:

My personal vision includes staying completely devoted to my sobriety, building a relationship with God, maintaining trust with my mother and family, and having strong, healthy relationships with them and my children. Most important to me, after my sobriety, is having joint custody of all three of my children, with their father sharing custody. I want to be the best version of myself, so I can be the mother my children deserve and need. I see myself and my children having a happy, healthy life in a loving and stable home. I also desire to have a stable job that allows me to provide for my children and myself without financial worries. 

     It would be awesome to have a significant other who shares the same values and would treat my children as he would his own, but that is not negotiable because my children will have a happy, loving and healthy home with or without my being married or in a relationship. I am not going to be pressed into finding someone, and I will not have just any man or men in and out of my children's lives.   

 - Autumn Shifflett

     My vision to have a more fulfilling life and becoming more powerful than my addiction is as follows: I will take more time each day to be humble and grateful. I'll make sure to appreciate small things I  would normally overlook and realize how blessed I actually am. When I become overwhelmed I will take time to see how far I've come compared to what I've been.      

- Emily Bartley

     My vision for myself is creating a life that I am satisfied with and that my children can look up to and be proud of. I don't want to just go through the motions; I want to be mindful of what I am presenting to the world. I will be kind, helpful, generous, thoughtful and caring. I will incorporate this not only into my personal life but in my professional life as well.  

 - Gina Brigante

     My vision is to lead a simple life and be grateful for all the things being in recovery has given me, and to learn new things to better myself.
     I will show love rather than expect love. I will support my children at every stage of life and accept them for who they are and will become. I will have pride and dignity as a person and a mother, and practice rigorous honesty and teach my children to be authentically themselves. I will teach them to make tough and unpopular decisions based on their own best interests, to teach them to properly manage their emotions in a healthy way, and that all emotions big or small are valid, along with their opinions and thoughts. I will teach my children to be independent and to solve problems in a healthy way, but also protect them when they are struggling. 
     Before I can do any of this I must learn to be the best version of myself, to build trust with my family and my children, to continue with my recovery and work as hard as I can for a better and good life for my kids. I must continue to take care of myself and weed out or remove people who no longer serve a valid purpose for my life or in any way bring me down.
     Most of all my main vision is just to succeed in life and recovery with my children.   

- Dana Silvious

     I will continue to work hard to grow and become a better woman and a better mother, and to stand strong during difficult times and lead my children in the right direction. 

     My personal vision is to be the person for my children that I needed when I was growing up, to show unconditional love, understanding and guidance no matter how hard things may get, and to create a life for my children that they don't need to heal from.           

- Kirstynn Grimes 

On Re-Converting North American Christians

Reading this book rocked my world, and renewed my passion for finding ways of changing it.

I've finally gotten around to reading The Hole In Our Gospel, the 2009 best seller by Richard Stearns, president of World Vision. I would strongly encourage everyone to get a copy, but here are a few excerpts:

More and more, our view of the gospel has been narrowed to a simple transaction, marked by registering a decision for Christ, or coming forward during an altar call... It was about saving as many people from hell as possible--for the next life... It minimized any concern for those same people in this life. (p. 17)

For the past two thousand years, "loving our neighbors as ourselves" has meant exactly that--loving our immediate neighbors, those people we encounter daily in our communities... That one's neighbors might include those living on another continent was ludicrous until recent times. In fact the great disparity between rich nations and poor nations... largely didn't even exist... Prior to 1800, disease and inadequate health care were facts of life that affected all people. Lack of clean water and sanitation would have been virtually universal. Droughts, crop failures, famines and epidemics would have periodically devastated almost all countries. Illiteracy was common everywhere. It was the legacy of colonialism combined with the advances of the Industrial Revolution that ultimately resulted in the rapid development of some economies over another. (p. 100)

Only about 4% of all U.S. charitable giving goes to international causes of any kind. (p. 102)

If your income is $25,000 a year, you are wealthier than approximately 90 percent of the world's population. If you make $50,000 a year, you are wealthier than 99% of the world's people. (p. 215)

The average giving of American church members in 2005 was just 2.58% of their income. In 1933, at the height of the Depression, giving averaged 3.3 percent... If we look at where the money goes after it is received by churches, we find that just about 2 percent of it goes to overseas missions of any kind, whether evangelistic or to assist the poor... The bottom line is that the commitment that American Christians, the wealthiest Christians in all history, are making to the world is just about 2 percent of 2 percent--actually about five ten-thousandths of our income... about six pennies per day that we give through our churches to the rest of the world--six cents!  (p. 217) 

(Note: Newer editions of the book may have updated statistics.)

One great way to give: https://harvyoder.blogspot.com/2022/08/st-augustine-bellies-of-poor-are-safer.html

Our Ancestors' Books Were Banned And Burned

Benuel S. Blank, a member of an Old Order 
Amish congregation in Lancaster County,
Pennsylvania, published this book, now in its 
eighth printing, in 2009, the year he died at
age 76. 

I doubt if any of the 53 Anabaptist authors of the hymns included in the first edition of the 1563 "Ausbund" were actually my biological kin, but 51 of the songs they composed during their five years of imprisonment in the infamous Swiss Passau prison are still a part of the ancient hymnal used by members of the Amish community of my birth.

The 1525 Anabaptist (Weidertaufer, or rebaptizer) movement that gave birth to Mennonite, Hutterite and Amish groups promoted church membership by free choice rather than by an infant baptism that registered everyone as a citizen of the state as well as a member of the state church. Its very first adherents were originally members of Ulrich Zwingli's Reformed branch of the Protestant Reformation, but the movement spread rapidly to Lutheran and Catholic controlled jurisdictions all over western Europe. 

Fearing anarchy if people were allowed religious freedom, state church officials were swift in their renunciation of the movement and charged Anabaptists with sedition and heresy punishable by death. Thousands had their property confiscated and their rights of citizenship denied, and many were banished, drowned and burned at the stake for what were considered radical and dangerous beliefs.

Not surprisingly, the expanding collection of hymns included in numerous editions of the Ausbund hymnal, along with copies of their Schleitheim Confession of Faith and writings by church leaders like Michael Sattler, Pilgrim Marpeck and Menno Simons, were banned and burned, and anyone possessing copies of unauthorized religious material was subject to severe punishment. Benual Blank, in his book The Amazing Story of the Ausbund, writes, "There are instances known of finding Anabaptist books many years later in the walls and ceilings and under the floorboards of European homes at one time owned by Anabaptists."

Religious freedom for all can never be taken for granted, and has been gained not so much by the power of the sword as by the blood of martyrs. 

For more on Mennonite hymnody: 

https://harvyoder.blogspot.com/2018/08/from-anabaptist-ausbund-to.html

Sleep: It's How We Should Be Spending A Third Of Our Time Every Day

 

Tips from Dr. Winters' book have been helpful
to many of my clients, and I've recommended
his book to my colleagues as well.

I was introduced to Dr. W. Chris Winter's book on sleep by a client who came to me with a history of insomnia she had suffered for decades. She wondered if this resource by a University of Virginia sleep specialist might be helpful, and asked me to coach her in working together at her problem.

I ordered the book and read much of it before our next session, at which she reported having already made great progress in being able to sleep better due to the help she got from Winter's book

Here are some of the key points:

1. Getting enough sleep has a profound affect on almost every aspect of our physical and emotional health. 

2. Some form of anxiety is a key underlying factor in preventing good sleep, including anxiety about not being able to sleep well. 

3. People who report having insomnia are often getting more sleep than they realize, and are often worrying about it far more than necessary. He recommends that we seek to simply rest. Sleep will come.

4. Since we require sleep for survival just as we require oxygen, water and food, our bodies are naturally designed to crave sleep. We don’t have to try to make that craving happen, but rather focus on addressing factors that interfere with good sleep, such as:

    a. too much caffeine

    b. too much food or physical exercise just before bedtime

    c. naps during the day (if you nap, keep it short and do it earlier, rather than later, in the day)

    d. over-reliance on sleep aids (Dr. Winter doesn’t recommend any regular use of such, period)

    e. too much light, noise, etc., in the bedroom (having TV or other media on, for example)

    f. inconsistent bedtimes

    g. shift work

5. Suggested plan for people with sleep difficulty:

    a. Determine a time you want to stick to for getting up every morning. 

    b. Based in that time, go to bed at a time that will allow for only 5 1/2 hours of sleep at first.

    c. Avoid naps, sleep aids and other things mentioned in point 4 above.

    d. Don’t deviate from the plan except for gradually going to bed earlier as your body begins to demand it. No sleeping in!

Feel free to post your own recommendations.

Beware Of This Perfectly Legal Healthcare Fraud

I had a sticker shock moment recently when I was told my copay for a small tube of a prescribed antibiotic came to $66. So I asked the cashier, "What would it cost me if I just paid for it without using my insurance?" 

The answer I was given, after she had one of the pharmacists check it out, was a mere $30, less than half of what I would have paid had I used my Medicare and supplemental health insurance. 

This seemed unbelievable, as I always assumed my health plans would help me save on my medical expenses, not add to them.

When I asked how much the store would have charged if they billed insurance, I was told they submit the claim to a third party, which in turn bills insurance for payment. "Then there's some kind of algorithm," he explained, "that determines the actual amount."  

I left the pharmacy better off financially by $36, a little wiser, and more than a little miffed. I find it mystifying--and maddening--that we can't we have a healthcare system that is more transparent, and with competitive and fair pricing that keeps costs reasonable for all.

Guest Post by Debra Turner: We Need a Local Public Defender’s Office

A statue of Lady Justice towers high above
or local court house.

There are 30 Public Defender Office locations in Virginia, staffed, funded and managed by the Commonwealth’s Indigent Defense Commission to “protect the Constitutional right to counsel for people who cannot afford to hire their own lawyer.” Harrisonburg is one of the most populous areas in the state still without a Public Defender’s Office.  Our community is relying solely on a shrinking pool of court appointed attorneys to meet the needs of indigent defendants.

Public defenders do not replace court appointed attorneys, and both options are available in all of the areas with Public Defender’s Offices, such as in nearby jurisdictions like Lexington, Lynchburg, Roanoke, Staunton, Winchester and Charlottesville, to name a few. 
 
According to Defense Attorney Gene Hart, chair of a committee tasked by the Community Criminal Justice Board to study the issue, the pool of lawyers in our area willing or able to serve as court appointed attorneys is diminishing at the same time that the demand for them is increasing. This is partly because reimbursement is only $158 per case for misdemeanors and $1235 for a felony case in Circuit Court, whereas public defenders have a salary set by the Virginia Legislature. Their salary levels are set by the Indigent Defense Commission (IDC). No additional local tax dollars are required to be spent on salaries or facilities.
 
Low reimbursement of court appointed attorneys leads to high caseloads with less representation. This has resulted in comments from some local individuals about their experience with their court appointed attorneys such as, "They often came to see me the day before the court date or for a few minutes just before the hearing, and never prior to that." Or "I called my attorney numerous times and left voicemails asking when and at what time my court date was and what was going to happen, and was never called back.” And, ";My court appointed attorney never responded to my phone calls, messages, or letters, and never came to see me when I was incarcerated."
 
Often public defenders get better results which ultimately saves money all around. The Public Defender’s Office saves money by being more efficient by pooling resources. They have specialists and a central office building. They waste less time traveling as they usually serve just one courthouse.  They have access to a full-time Immigration Specialist which would be a giant plus for an area like ours with high ethnic diversity.  With in-office Mitigation Specialists like counselors and social workers, mental health issues are de-criminalized, and there is more moral accountability and compassion.  A Public Defender’s Office has a team to rely on and is not just a single private practice court appointed lawyer burdened with too many indigent cases.
 
Public Defenders must follow standards of practice that are client-centered.  They are scrutinized and are very competent. The Virginia Defenders Indigent Defense Commission summarizes their mission best as: “Dedicated to protecting and defending the rights and dignity of our clients through zealous, compassionate, high quality legal advocacy.” 

It’s time that the Harrisonburg-Rockingham County area makes this kind of high-quality representation available to our indigent population.  Please contact your local state legislators, Senator Mark Obenshain and Delegate Tony Wilt, and ask them to introduce a bill in the 2024 Virginia General Assembly to open such an office in our community.

This was submitted as an Open Forum to the Daily News-Record May 26.