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The annual after-Christmas trash pickup is a major chore for city sanitation workers. |
Walking through our neighborhood yesterday I observed street after street lined with piles of trash, the sad aftermath of another holiday celebration.
Mennonite pastor and counselor Harvey Yoder blogs on faith, life, family, spirituality, relationships, values, peace and social justice. Views expressed here are his own.
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The annual after-Christmas trash pickup is a major chore for city sanitation workers. |
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Infants possess amazing power, but without imposing control. |
Yet, he says, this cry of a baby is a power to which we can respond or choose not to. It can profoundly move us, but it’s at the same time a power which in no way robs us of our freedom. Some people might in fact be able to sleep on, oblivious to a baby’s cry. But there is something in our very natures that makes us want to respond. To refuse to do so would be to refuse to be who we know ourselves to be down deep. Something inside us knows that its the only right thing to do.
So he says it is with the power of the cry of the divine. We can refuse it, block it out, but only at the cost of not being who we are most deeply. This cry, this “baby power,” is the kind God chooses at Christmas, a power that can be absolutely compelling and yet absolutely non-coercive.
And that’s one of the ways the baby whose birth we celebrate this season truly deserves to be “King of Kings and Lord of Lords.” A strange but most compelling kind of power.
(This is from a series of radio spots aired on three local stations by the Center where I work.)
Wally was big for his age, a little uncoordinated, and was still in the second grade, since learning was hard for him. But the play’s director thought his size would add authority to his refusing lodging to Joseph, and after all, there weren’t many lines he would have to learn.
At the final performance Wally sternly informed the troubled Mary and Joseph that there was absolutely no room at the inn, period. Then poor Joseph implored, with his next line: “Please, good innkeeper, my wife Mary is heavy with child and needs a place to rest. Surely you must have some small corner for her. She is so tired.”
For the first time, Wally relaxed his stiff stance and focused on Mary, so small and tired in her oversized bathrobe costume. Wally hesitated, as if he couldn’t get his words out. His backstage prompter whispered his lines loudly enough for everyone to hear: “No! Begone!” which poor Wally repeated halfheartedly, by rote.
Joseph then sadly put his arm around Mary, she leaned against his shoulder and the two slowly walked away.
Then instead of closing the door of his Inn as he was supposed to, Wally just stood there, his mouth open, as if about to cry. Then he broke out into a big smile and called after them, “Don’t go, Joseph, Bring Mary back. You can have my room!”
Most folks at Wally’s church left that night thinking that was the highlight of the whole play.
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Saint Nicholas Saves Three Innocents from Death (1888) by Ilya Repin |
This third century bishop of Myra, who lived on the southern coast of what is now Turkey, became legendary for his generosity in helping the poor and needy in his parish, according to stories about him that have been passed down through the generations. Because this real saint seemed to be a good alternative to the jolly old elf of recent invention, the Sherers began celebrating the Feast Day of St. Nicholas, which is on December 6, as an early part of their family’s Advent, and each year designate 5% of their December income to give anonymous help to a needy individual or family in their community, in the spirit of the good bishop of Myra.
They Sherers do put up a tree, but cover the floor all around it with good books about Christmas instead of the many other gifts for themselves that used to accumulate there. The books they then put away each year with the tree decorations, to give them a rest and to make them “new” each Advent. The Sherers report that their giving up a fake Santa for a real saint they feel embodies the true spirit of Christmas has been a richly satisfying change, one they would recommend to anyone.
(This is from a series of radio spots aired on three local stations by the Center where I work.)
On behalf of all of us at the Family Life Resource Center, we wish you the very best during this special season. May the good work of Christmas begin in each of us.
(This is from one of the radio spots aired regularly on several local stations by the Center where I work.)
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I had heard similar stories of a temporary truce in WWI, but not about this one in the earlier Franco-Prussian War. |
The new carol, "Cantique de Noel," was an immediate sensation, but when some church leaders later learned that Cappeau was a socialist and Adams a Jew, the song was banned from use in church services, though it remained popular among the French people.
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In Chinese culture, the Year of the Rat is associated with a time of fertility and abundance, quite unlike how most of us have experienced 2020. |