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| Reading this book rocked my world, and renewed my passion for finding ways of changing it. |
Mennonite pastor and counselor Harvey Yoder blogs on faith, life, family, spirituality, relationships, values, peace and social justice.
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
On Re-Converting North American Christians
Tuesday, June 20, 2023
Our Ancestors' Books Were Banned And Burned
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| Benuel S. Blank, a member of an Old Order Amish congregation in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, published this book, now in its eighth printing, in 2009, the year he died at age 76. |
Wednesday, June 14, 2023
Sleep: It's How We Should Be Spending A Third Of Our Time Every Day
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| Tips from Dr. Winters' book have been helpful to many of my clients, and I've recommended his book to my colleagues as well. |
I ordered the book and read much of it before our next session, at which she reported having already made great progress in being able to sleep better due to the help she got from Winter's book
Here are some of the key points:
1. Getting enough sleep has a profound affect on almost every aspect of our physical and emotional health.
2. Some form of anxiety is a key underlying factor in preventing good sleep, including anxiety about not being able to sleep well.
3. People who report having insomnia are often getting more sleep than they realize, and are often worrying about it far more than necessary. He recommends that we seek to simply rest. Sleep will come.
4. Since we require sleep for survival just as we require oxygen, water and food, our bodies are naturally designed to crave sleep. We don’t have to try to make that craving happen, but rather focus on addressing factors that interfere with good sleep, such as:
a. too much caffeine
b. too much food or physical exercise just before bedtime
c. naps during the day (if you nap, keep it short and do it earlier, rather than later, in the day)
d. over-reliance on sleep aids (Dr. Winter doesn’t recommend any regular use of such, period)
e. too much light, noise, etc., in the bedroom (having TV or other media on, for example)
f. inconsistent bedtimes
g. shift work
5. Suggested plan for people with sleep difficulty:
a. Determine a time you want to stick to for getting up every morning.
b. Based in that time, go to bed at a time that will allow for only 5 1/2 hours of sleep at first.
c. Avoid naps, sleep aids and other things mentioned in point 4 above.
d. Don’t deviate from the plan except for gradually going to bed earlier as your body begins to demand it. No sleeping in!
Feel free to post your own recommendations.
Thursday, June 8, 2023
Beware Of This Perfectly Legal Healthcare Fraud
Friday, June 2, 2023
Guest Post by Debra Turner: We Need a Local Public Defender’s Office
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| A statue of Lady Justice towers high above or local court house. |
According to Defense Attorney Gene Hart, chair of a committee tasked by the Community Criminal Justice Board to study the issue, the pool of lawyers in our area willing or able to serve as court appointed attorneys is diminishing at the same time that the demand for them is increasing. This is partly because reimbursement is only $158 per case for misdemeanors and $1235 for a felony case in Circuit Court, whereas public defenders have a salary set by the Virginia Legislature. Their salary levels are set by the Indigent Defense Commission (IDC). No additional local tax dollars are required to be spent on salaries or facilities.
Low reimbursement of court appointed attorneys leads to high caseloads with less representation. This has resulted in comments from some local individuals about their experience with their court appointed attorneys such as, "They often came to see me the day before the court date or for a few minutes just before the hearing, and never prior to that." Or "I called my attorney numerous times and left voicemails asking when and at what time my court date was and what was going to happen, and was never called back.” And, ";My court appointed attorney never responded to my phone calls, messages, or letters, and never came to see me when I was incarcerated."
Often public defenders get better results which ultimately saves money all around. The Public Defender’s Office saves money by being more efficient by pooling resources. They have specialists and a central office building. They waste less time traveling as they usually serve just one courthouse. They have access to a full-time Immigration Specialist which would be a giant plus for an area like ours with high ethnic diversity. With in-office Mitigation Specialists like counselors and social workers, mental health issues are de-criminalized, and there is more moral accountability and compassion. A Public Defender’s Office has a team to rely on and is not just a single private practice court appointed lawyer burdened with too many indigent cases.
Public Defenders must follow standards of practice that are client-centered. They are scrutinized and are very competent. The Virginia Defenders Indigent Defense Commission summarizes their mission best as: “Dedicated to protecting and defending the rights and dignity of our clients through zealous, compassionate, high quality legal advocacy.”
It’s time that the Harrisonburg-Rockingham County area makes this kind of high-quality representation available to our indigent population. Please contact your local state legislators, Senator Mark Obenshain and Delegate Tony Wilt, and ask them to introduce a bill in the 2024 Virginia General Assembly to open such an office in our community.
Saturday, May 27, 2023
A New "Apocrypha"? On The Church Creating A Priority Reading List For Its Members
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| One of many inspiring writings not included in our canon. |
In the early history of the church many of its leaders made use of apocryphal Hebrew texts that were seen as having inspirational and instructional value but were not considered a part of the Jewish canon. There were also numerous Christian apocryphal writings that were widely circulated, though not given the same endorsement as the books that were eventually included in the New Testament as we know it. Some of these were seen as theologically questionable, but others were widely circulated as worthwhile reading.
Throughout the centuries since, countless numbers of faith-inspiring books have been written that have been of priceless help to believers everywhere, along with writings considered dubious or even misleading.
Meanwhile, as a part of commemorating the 500th anniversary of the 16th century Anabaptist movement, study groups of North American believers have been helping produce a Bible with notes reflecting the core beliefs of Anabaptist-minded Christians. This reflects the seriousness with which we take scripture as formative for our faith and every aspect of our life.
But should we have similar groups of believers focus on creating a recommended reading list of other trusted authors throughout the centuries? This would not mean elevating their writing to the status of the canon of books that make up our Bible, but would be list of faith-formative writings affirmed as being true to our understanding of scripture and supportive of a Christ-based understanding of our faith.
This would also mean excluding widely read authors not seen as representing the core values and beliefs of a Christ-based way of life, and would simply be endorsing those that are seen as having special merit. This compilation would not be considered comprehensive, of course. And it would be subject to regular review, revision and addition, as works that are urgently recommended for the reserve shelf in our church libraries and which would be on every believer's priority reading list:
Here is a small sample of publications that come to my mind:
Wednesday, May 24, 2023
Reprehensible Examples of Men Behaving Badly
Residents of the Gemeinschaft Women's House wrote the following examples of some of the bad experiences they've had with men in their lives:
Working in retail sales for 12 years I would frequently have men wait for me after work and ask me for my phone number, to go home with them, or for other unwelcome favors.
So many men in my life seemed to feel that because we were together they "own" me and had the right to insult and abuse me.
If I had any male friends or spoke to other men I was called a "whore" and accused of having slept with them.
I've had men send me unwanted nude pictures via Facebook messenger, or offer money for nude photos.
My ex-boy friend yelled at me for dressing a certain way and for wearing makeup, then cheated on me because "I looked bad" (his words).
Various male friends offered me a needed ride in exchange for sexual favors.
Many men in my life claimed they loved the woman I was until I outshone them, then they forced me to dull myself and made me feel bad for being outgoing and successful.
Of the four male landlords I've had every one of them propositioned me.
Most of the men in my life have been possessive, jealous and controlling, and/or have mostly ignored me and taken me for granted.
My husband was verbally abusive and abandoned me when I needed him most.
I've been made to walk ahead or behind a man I was with so no one would know I was with him.
My husband's co workers and his boss each tried to get me to sleep with them.
I was hit and held down by my husband and sexually assaulted.
More than once I was abandoned at a place where I knew no one so my man could go out and see other women.





