Mennonite pastor and counselor Harvey Yoder blogs on faith, life, family, spirituality, relationships, values, peace and social justice. Views expressed here are his own.
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Saturday, July 30, 2022
Is Fuel Too Cheap, Transportation Too Plentiful?
Thursday, July 28, 2022
Jewish Wisdom On Health and Healing
for their gift of healing comes from the Most High,
and they are rewarded by the king.
The skill of physicians makes them distinguished,
and in the presence of the great they are admired.
The Lord created medicines out of the earth,
and the sensible will not despise them…
And he gave skill to human beings
that he might be glorified in his marvelous works.
By them the physician heals and takes away pain;
the pharmacist makes a mixture from them.
God’s works will never be finished,
and from him health spreads over all the earth.
My child, when you are ill, do not delay,
but pray to the Lord, and he will heal you.
Give up your faults and direct your hands rightly,
and cleanse your heart from all sin.
Offer a sweet-smelling sacrifice and a memorial portion of choice flour,
and pour oil on your offering, as much as you can afford
Then give physicians their place, for the Lord created them;
do not let them leave you, for you need them.
There may come a time when recovery lies in the hands of physicians,
for they, too, pray to the Lord
that he grant them success in diagnosis
and in healing, for the sake of preserving life.
Those who sin against their Maker
will be defiant toward the physician.
Sirach 38:1-15 (NRSV)
Thursday, July 21, 2022
Guest Post: A Great Hammer And Roof Story
Tabitha Hammer with Pat Martin by the amazing Paper Mulberry Tree outside Tabitha's house, now blessed with a brand new new roof. |
Over a month ago, Louise Jennings of Kingsway Prison Ministries contacted Harvey Yoder to see if he knew of someone who might help a woman patch the roof of her leaky house. Harvey contacted the Carpenters Guild and the wheels started turning.
The Guild has been a gathering of folks in the Harrisonburg area who for the last twenty years have been volunteering to help out in home repair for persons needing a hand. Often doing their work on Fridays, anywhere from three to 20 carpenters, plumbers, electricians, handy-hands, generalists and well-wishers would find themselves tearing out and rebuilding walls for a Latino couple, building a wheel-chair ramp for Paul Longacre or rebuilding the White House (now Vine and Fig) and their front porch. Not every month saw a project, but presumably there were at least six per year over the past twenty years, so likely well over 100 projects.
The Guild deliberately did not keep track of the projects. So there is no record. No, the intent was to lend a hand without bureaucracy, without troublesome “vetting” of each project, without attention or fanfare. Just an opportunity for some hammer-swingin folks to work together for a day!
So when the call came to help out the woman with her leaky roof came, it seemed like the perfect project for the Guild. “This kind of project is the very reason the Guild was formed.”
Where is this project? Well, it's out beyond Elkton in the beautiful, hilly boonies. And who is this woman? When we pulled in one evening over a month ago to assess the project, we were met by a fast-talking, fast-chuckling firecracker of a woman named Tabitha Hammer. Tabitha explained that her house had been built by her grandfather, and built well. Alas, the roof has been leaking for years, forcing her son to live elsewhere rather than in his wet bedroom.
We climbed her ladder, homemade with an assemblage of boards, onto her low-pitched roof. (Less than two-twelve slope.) But Tabitha had arranged a variety of plastic sheeting here and there over the roof to prevent some of the rain from falling into her kitchen. Tabitha also had purchased 26 bundles of three-tab shingles and a half dozen sheets of three-quarter inch plywood to repair her roof. But she had no way of getting those remedies installed.
We told her we would see if we could help. Back home, we contacted members of the Guild for their counsel on what to do. Tim and others advised installing Ice and Water Shield over the whole roof because of the low slope. We contacted John Weaver about helping to install the shingles. He immediately said, “I'll do it!” Wow, what a spontaneous, beautiful commitment!
We set a date for the Guild to show up to remove the two (or three or four) layers of shingles on the roof. Probably bad timing, given summer vacations and people's earlier commitments, but Wick Fary showed up and soon we were attacking the old shingles, only to discover large areas of the roof where the one by six sheathing boards were totally rotted out. Well, that's what the ¾ inch plywood was for!
So lots of patching. At first we thought we would never get this roof ready for shingles. But then a newbie, Andrew Troyer–Ed's nephew--shows up and Wick phones his son Dylan who also shows up as did Miguel–bless their hearts–so by 5 pm three-fourth of the roof was stripped, patched and covered in Ice and Water Shield. Tabitha had provided a generous lunch and lots of cold drinks!
So four days later, we take another stab at the project, this time with added help from Ben and Russ. And most delightfully, the help of Chuck Kisling, a friend of Tabitha's and a true man of the fields and the hills. Chuck worked harder than any of us. When we had finished stripping, patching, and Ice Shielding the rest of the roof, and replacing most of the fascia, Chuck decided he would do a little extra, up to the peak.
The next day, John Weaver showed up to get an early start before the rain. By noontime, he had that nearly ten-square roof shingled and ridge capped. A miracle! With Chuck by his side, doing whatever he could.
That evening Chuck texted, naming with special thanks each of the folks who had come to help. He also said, “I hope we also keep in touch an if u have anything come up… an u think u may need a hand tex me call me an I'll do what I can the best I can for u or who ever it may be.”
A few days later, he texted again, “jus letting ya know other nite when we had rain not 1 drop of rain made it inside the house that was a pretty nice sign of relief finally. THANK TO ALL WHO MADE IT POSSIBLE FOR A INSIDE FLOOR TO BE DRY FOR THE 1ST TIME IN 25 YEARS ...”
And today, a big box from Amazon arrived at the door containing a large Gift Basket with specialty snack foods, with a note enclosed which I took for all who helped out with the roof, indeed, all who have given a hand with the Guild over the past, many years:
“A Gift for You. Thank you for being a generous soul and a beautiful spirit in a
world that could use a million more people just like you. Thank you so much for
everything. You're the best and you're appreciated more than you know."
- From Tabitha Hammer
Volunteer John Weaver at work on the roof repair project. |
Sunday, July 17, 2022
"One Day Someone Should Start a Religion Based on the Teachings of Jesus"
The Mount of the Beatitudes, northwest of the Sea of Galilee. |
Saturday, July 9, 2022
Beware Of False Dichotomies
In our attempts to arrive at right answers, we often ask the wrong questions. Here are just a few examples: |
1. Which is more important, one's work or one's marriage? It's not unusual for spouses to complain about partners caring more about their work than about the relationship, given factors like the sheer number of hours devoted to their jobs. So there can of course be a valid basis for some complaint, but it can also be an example of a false choice, in that both work and marriage are of vital importance. To work hard and to work well is essential to both one's wellbeing and to that of the community, and the income generated and life satisfaction gained can help enrich and sustain one's marriage and provide a good example to our children of how to invest appropriate time and give adequate attention to each.
2. Which should come first, our family or our congregation? In rearing our own three children, we found ourselves forever indebted to the good church people who invited our family into their hearts and homes, took an interest in our children and made a positive impact on us all. We could not have done it without them. In short, we came to realize that it does take a whole village, or a whole congregation to help sustain a good marriage and raise a whole and healthy family. So this is another example of what should not be an either-or question, or a "which is more important" question.
3. Which should have priority, preserving the lives of the unborn or of the already born? Most of us are both pro-life and pro-peace at some level. When it comes to the former, no "pro choice" people I know would ever support infanticide as a means of population control, most are appalled at the idea of partial birth abortions, and many believe a mother’s womb should be a safe place where life is protected and treated with respect at all stages of development. And when it comes to the already born, few would favor stoning as an acceptable sentence for a crime, encourage duels as a way of settling disputes, or condone having SWAT teams bomb whole neighborhoods to rid them of crime. Where people most often differ is in just how they demonstrate their desire for peace and their respect for human life.
The list could go on and on, as in, Should we advocate for stricter gun laws or support the Second Amendment? Should we focus on helping people with their spiritual needs or their physical needs? Should we seek change through legislation or through bringing about individual changes in people's hearts and behaviors?
These may all be examples of asking the wrong questions, or of framing them in an unhelpful way.